Leading a Rebellion: The Syrophonecian Woman

Leading a Rebellion: The Syrophoenician Woman

Rebel:

-A rebel is a person who resists any authority, control, or tradition.

The Story So Far: Jesus is ministering in Samaria. In Matthew 14 JBAP was beheaded and Jesus was informed of it. Jesus withdrew in order to be alone, but the crowds followed him there. Where they met up with Him was where He fed the 5,000—miracle number 1. Then in verse 22 He sent His disciples away, and He was to catch up with them somehow. How he did that was by walking on water—miracle number 2. Then in verse 34 they arrived in the land of Gennesaret. There, many sick people were made well just by touching him—miracle number 3. Matthew 15:21—our story for the night--“Then Jesus went out from there…” and healed the woman’s daughter—miracle number 4. Matthew 15:29, “Jesus departed from there…” and healed a great multitude—miracle number 5. In these two chapters, everywhere Jesus went he performed a miracle and then departed to another area to perform another miracle. We find five miracles in rapid succession.

            So we can assume that Jesus left the land of Gennesaret for the region of Tyre and Sidon for no other purpose but to heal the woman from our story’s daughter. Verse 21 starts the story of the Syrophonecian woman, verse 28 ends it, and verse 29 starts the next story with Jesus departing to the next region. No other agenda is mentioned for Him being in that region. Here’s an interesting point that we can’t overlook: From Gennesaret to Tyre and Sidon was about 100 miles. For what would you walk 100 miles? Jesus walked 100 miles just to meet this woman, which makes how He behaved towards her so interesting.

Matthew 15:21-28: And Jesus went away from there and withdrew to the district of Tyre and Sidon. ²² And behold, a Canaanite woman from that region came out and was crying, “Have mercy on me, O Lord, Son of David; my daughter is severely oppressed by a demon.” ²³ But he did not answer her a word. And his disciples came and begged him, saying, “Send her away, for she is crying out after us.” ²⁴ He answered, “I was sent only to the lost sheep of the house of Israel.” ²⁵ But she came and knelt before him, saying, “Lord, help me.” ²⁶ And he answered, “It is not right to take the children's bread and throw it to the dogs.” ²⁷ She said, “Yes, Lord, yet even the dogs eat the crumbs that fall from their masters' table.” ²⁸ Then Jesus answered her, “O woman, great is your faith! Be it done for you as you desire.” And her daughter was healed instantly.

The Rebellion: This is one of the strangest stories in all of scripture. Jesus and His disciples offended this poor woman four different times, but she counted the cost, recognized Jesus as her only hope, and refused to be offended. Let’s look at the story: Verse 22 says the Syrophonecian woman approached Jesus crying out, “Have mercy on me, O Lord, Son of David! My daughter is severely demon possessed.” Here we have a passionate plea by a mother to heal her daughter. The fame of Jesus must have spread to that region because she knew He had the power to heal and that He also was the Son of David. She also called Him “Lord,” which means master, like she belongs to Him, or would be indebted to Him. All of us, if we were in her shoes would have pleaded for Jesus to heal our daughter.

Offense #1: After this woman’s heart felt, passionate plea to the Lord Jesus Christ, who in the last chapter just fed five thousand people and healed hundreds, if not thousands of others just by letting them touch Him, how would you expect Him to respond? How did Jesus respond? Verse 23, “But He answered her not a word.” How rude and offensive was that? He couldn’t come up with anything to say? I once worked at a church and I accidentally snubbed a lady who stuck her hand out to shake mine. I didn’t see her and walked right past her. She was very offended and held on to that anger for six months until my evaluation where luck would have it, she led the meeting. She only brought it up about five times, though. She was very offended. Like I would intentionally snub an old lady like that. Give me a break. I was eventually fired.

            Did the woman in this story have a right to be offended? Absolutely. I snubbed the lady on accident. Jesus did it on purpose. Could she have walked away mumbling, “That Jesus cat ain’t all he’s cracked up to be. They always say celebrities are a lot different in real life. What a Jerk!”? Could she have said that? Yes. Would she have been right in her own eyes, as well as her peers? Yes. Would her daughter still be severely demon possessed? Absolutely.

Offense # 2: After Jesus ignored her—perhaps He just sat there looking off into the distance when the woman was pleading, or He stared at her blankly while she was flapping her gums, or maybe He just kept right on walking, we don’t know, all we know is He ignored her—His disciples came up and said “Send her away, for she cries out to us.” From this verse we know that her passionate plea lasted for several minutes and not just the fifteen words that we have in verse 22. The disciples were not exactly filled with compassion for her as they basically asked Jesus to send her away, without the healing she requested, simply because she was annoying. Wouldn’t it have been just as quick to heal her daughter? They didn’t care that her daughter was severely demon possessed. All they cared about was that she was killing their groove. She was a buzz kill.

            This woman identified Jesus as the only solution to her problem and His closest friends were being extremely unhelpful. Have you ever had a friend who hung around jerks a lot? Maybe they were teammates or something, but you found it impossible to be around your friend because of the way his friends treated you. Or maybe it was a business that had rude employees and you never went back. Rebekah took the girls to the same pediatrician for 14 years, and we were going to take Caleb to the same doctor, but because of the offensiveness of the nursing staff we decided to switch doctors.

            Did the woman have a right to be offended? Yes. Could she have walked away mumbling, “If you really are the Son of God why couldn’t you get nicer help?” Could she have said this and been right in her own eyes, and in the eyes of her peers? Yes. Would her daughter still have been severely demon possessed? Absolutely.

Offense #3: When Jesus finally did speak to her, he said, “I was not sent except to the lost sheep of the house of Israel.” In other words, “You aren’t the right nationality.” We can sit here and tell story after story of people being treated differently because of their nationality, race, or beliefs. Our Declaration of Independence, which was written in 1776, says that “all men are created equal” but it wasn’t until the 1960’s that blacks could drink from the same water fountain as white people could.

            Now it wasn’t that Jesus could not help her, it was Jesus would not help her—all because of her race. She wasn’t good enough.

            Did the woman have the right to be offended? Yes. Could she have walked away mumbling, “You think you’re so good because you’re Jewish. You Jews aren’t all that good. You can’t even be nice to a poor woman with a sick daughter.”? Could she have said this and been right in her own eyes, and in the eyes of her peers? Yes. Would her daughter still be severely demon possessed? Absolutely.

Offense #4: Up to now the woman would not be deterred. In fact after this last slight it says in verse 25 that she came and worshipped Him. Or in other words, she came and knelt in front of Him and pleaded with Him one more time, “Please, Lord. Help me.” To this tear jerking scene Jesus looked at her and said, “It’s not good to take the children’s bread and give it to the little dogs.”

            I know women and I know there’s one thing women like and that’s to be called a dog. They love it. Well, not really. The word Jesus used for dogs means a lap dog, and not a wild scavenging dog, so it wasn’t as offensive as what it could have been but it was still offensive. Any time you dehumanize someone to the level of an animal it is extremely offensive. Look at all of the major wars in the last few decades. We always dehumanize our enemy to make it easier to kill them. In Vietnam “They’re not real people. They’re Gooks.” In Iraq they are “towel-heads.” Doing this makes it easier to shoot them. “It’s not a baby. It’s fetal tissue.” When you know they’re somebody’s son, father, or husband--when you personalize them—it is harder to kill them. Look at the race issue in America. Why could we buy and sell blacks? Because they weren’t humans. Why could they not go to the same schools as white kids? “Those animals can’t be trusted around our children.” It’s stupid. It’s beyond offensive.

            Did the woman in the story have the right to be offended? Yes. Could she have walked away mumbling, “Who does that Jesus think He is calling me a dog? I’ll show you a dog. I would have tore Him up if my leg hadn’t fallen asleep.”? Could she have said that and been right in her own eyes, and in the eyes of her peers? Yes. Would her daughter still have been severely demon possessed? Absolutely.                    

            How does the story end? Well the woman looks up at Jesus and says, “Yes, Lord, yet even the little dogs eat the crumbs which fall from the master’s table.” She reaffirmed His role as master of her life, and acknowledged that even the tiniest scraps from Jesus’ healing abilities were enough to heal her daughter. Jesus responded joyfully, “O woman, great is your faith! Let it be as you desire.” And her daughter was healed from that very hour.

            So what’s the point of this story? There are several points in here. We could talk for an hour on each one. But let’s quickly look at two.

            1) She had too much to lose to be offended. We can become offended so easily. We can find a reason to be offended in no time at all if we’re really trying. I once saw a bumper sticker that said, “PRO-CHOICE: Keep abortions safe and legal.” My first thought was, “Safe for whom?” My second thought was, “I should choose to run him off the road.” My third thought was an acknowledgement of how quickly I became offended.

            What does you being offended cause you to do? Does it cause you to get angry, and lose your temper along with any hopes of winning that person to your point of view or even winning that person to Christ? If it does, there is too much to lose for you to get offended. Does you being offended cause you to stiffen your spine and stand up for what you believe in? Then that’s good. Or do you never get offended by anything important because you have never established standards or morals in your life? Then that’s not good. Find something worth believing in that will get your blood stirred up when you’re being stepped on.

            2) Why was Jesus being such a jerk? Does this story fly in the face of everything you ever learned about Jesus? We always hear about the compassionate Jesus who loves everyone, even the ones who can offer nothing in return. This doesn’t seem like Him.

            Why did Jesus leave Jerusalem? There was persecution of the Christian movement. People were offended by the message that he was preaching. First, He claimed to be the Son of God, which drove them crazy. Second, He refuted the teaching of the religious establishment which could cause them to lose their precious power. And third, He taught that the Law was not necessary, something they devoted their entire being to, if they would accept Him as savior. Jesus and His followers offended a lot of people and now they were being kicked out of their homes, their families, and their synagogues. These same followers had a tough time being tolerant of other people when they themselves were being rejected.

            There is a story in scriptures where a Samaritan village would not allow Jesus or His followers to stay in their town as they passed through simply because they were Jews. Two of His closest disciples approached Jesus and said, “Lord, do you want us to command fire to come down from heaven and consume them, just as Elijah did?” Not real tolerant. Not real accepting. This coming from people who in a few short weeks would spend the rest of their lives running and hiding from people intolerant of their beliefs.    

            Every time Jesus saw faith, or a lack of faith, He pointed it out. Usually it was the disciples who lacked faith, even though they spent almost all day every day with him for three years. And it was usually the Gentiles and the Samaritans who showed great faith. Could Jesus have walked 100 miles to meet this woman just to teach His disciples a lesson? If Jesus could heal her daughter from where He was, couldn’t he have healed her from Gennesaret? He is God. He knew about her condition. He wanted to meet her where she was, but more importantly He wanted His disciples to meet her. His disciples were intolerant of other cultures (which would soon have to change because Christianity did not stay within the confines of Judaism for very long) and they were not very compassionate. Jesus was really just acting as intolerant and rude as His disciples were to illustrate a point.

            Let’s look at the last section again with the idea in mind that Jesus was testing His disciples more than He was testing the woman. Picture the scene in your head. The woman kneels before God and says, “Lord, please help me.” Jesus replies, “It is not right to take children’s bread and toss it to the dogs.” Is Jesus smiling at the woman? Does He say His line and then wink at her, showing her that He is testing her and His disciples, and she is faring better than them? Does he say that line in a tongue in cheek manner? Have you ever seen someone say something that could be taken very badly but everyone present to witness it could tell by the person’s face, smile, or body language that he meant it in a joking manner? Could Jesus have been just joking with the woman after He was finished testing His disciples like an athlete jokes with his competitors right after a tough game or match? I think so. If we could only see a visual replay of this scene, many of our questions could be answered. 

            Now picture the woman saying, “Yes, Lord, but even the dogs are fed the crumbs which fall from the master’s table.” Does the woman recognize Jesus calling her a “dog” as a playful test? Can you see Jesus not being able to control the excitement inside as He sees this Gentile woman showing more faith than His highly trained disciples? He finally can’t keep it in any longer and has to blurt out, “O woman, great is your faith!” Then He heals her daughter and the two of them hug. After that touching moment, He let’s her embrace go as she races home to see her healed daughter. Jesus watches her run away for a few seconds, and then slowly turns around to see His disciples standing their shocked, dumfounded, and embarrassed. Jesus scowls at them and they hang their heads knowing it’s going to be a long walk to wherever they’re going next as Jesus would be taking them to the woodshed the entire trip. His disciples showed again a huge lack of faith and compassion, and His time with them was getting short.    

Leading a Rebellion: The Centurion

Leading a Rebellion: The Centurion

Rebel:

-A rebel is a person who resists any authority, control, or tradition.

The Story So Far: Jesus had entered the city of Capernaum, a coastal city on the northern shore of the Sea of Galilee. Capernaum’s name literally means “Nahum’s Village,” and was near the home of the apostle Peter. Jesus was ministering in this city when a centurion approached him. A centurion was a professional officer in the Roman army. Centurions were named after the number of men they were in charge of. They were traditionally in charge of 100 people, but in reality most centurions were in charge of 70-80 people. A roman legion consisted of about 6,000 fighting men. Each legion had 60 centurions in charge of their separate groups all working towards the same goal. Just like in today’s military, chain of command was extremely important. If a centurion could not control his 100 men it could not only cost them their lives, but also the lives of the rest of the legion. It also could thwart the entire initiative of the legion’s attempt.

            Before we leave the topic of legions, there are two other mentions of the roman legion in scripture that I want to talk about. When Jesus healed the demon possessed man, He asked him, “What is your name?” and the demons responded, “I am Legion, for we are many.” The man was possessed by upwards of 6,000 demons. Another time when Jesus was going through His passion week, He said, “Do you think that I could not call down a legion of angels to be by my side?” Six thousand angels would be a drop in the bucket to help Jesus.

The Rebellion: Matthew 8:5-13, “When he had entered Capernaum, a centurion came forward to him, appealing to him, ⁶ “Lord, my servant is lying paralyzed at home, suffering terribly.” ⁷ And he said to him, “I will come and heal him.” ⁸ But the centurion replied, “Lord, I am not worthy to have you come under my roof, but only say the word, and my servant will be healed. ⁹ For I too am a man under authority, with soldiers under me. And I say to one, ‘Go,’ and he goes, and to another, ‘Come,’ and he comes, and to my servant, ‘Do this,’ and he does it.” ¹⁰ When Jesus heard this, he marveled and said to those who followed him, “Truly, I tell you, with no one in Israel have I found such faith. ¹¹ I tell you, many will come from east and west and recline at table with Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob in the kingdom of heaven, ¹² while the sons of the kingdom will be thrown into the outer darkness. In that place there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.” ¹³ And to the centurion Jesus said, “Go; let it be done for you as you have believed.” And the servant was healed at that very moment.”

            There was a time in American football history where there was more than one professional league. There wasn’t just the NFL. In the 60’s they combined two of the leagues, the NFL and the far inferior AFL. Joe Namath, a graduate of the University of Alabama shocked the world when he chose to go play in the AFL instead of the NFL. A lot of cash helped him make that decision. When they combined the leagues, the AFL became the AFC, and the NFL became the NFC, both being a part of the NFL. The best team from the AFC played the best team in the NFC in the Super Bowl. Joe Namath is a Hall of Fame quarterback, known for several things, but mostly known for his prediction that his Jets would beat Johnny Unitas’ much more talented Baltimore Colts in Super Bowl III. This was considered the most ridiculous thing any cocky kid had ever said, because the Colts were considered the best football team in history. He also made headlines when he donned a full length, white fur coat on the sideline of football games. He was cocky, he was brash, but he was also right. The Jets went on and beat the Colts 17-6.

            The centurion man approached Jesus and humbly said, “Lord, I am not worthy to have you come under my roof.” But then he goes on to say something that seems to be very cocky, “but only say the word, and my servant will be healed. ⁹ For I too am a man under authority, with soldiers under me. And I say to one, ‘Go,’ and he goes, and to another, ‘Come,’ and he comes, and to my servant, ‘Do this,’ and he does it.”

            You know the song “I Can Only Imagine” by MercyMe. The guy is singing about a future encounter with God. He doesn’t know if he will dance or drop to his knees; if he will sing, or fall completely silent. Here we have this man who meets Jesus, who created the entire universe, he is humbled by Jesus, but then he began identifying his authority over his men with Jesus’ authority over all of creation. At first glance that seems awfully cocky, but after you study it more, he recognized Jesus’s authority over him, was willing to submit to Him, and carry out His orders—specifically the order to have his servant heal, he had hoped.

            What did Jesus do when He heard this? He marveled. Every time there was an example of faith taking place, Jesus pointed it out. Every time there was a lack of faith, Jesus rebuked it. So where was the faith? Everybody wanted Jesus to do something for them. Jesus had to touch them, pray over them, or even one woman thought that if she could just touch the hem of His garment she would be healed. It always had to be Jesus doing the healing. This centurion recognized Jesus as the healer, but had faith that all Jesus had to do was say the word and the centurion himself would be able to deliver the healing. Jesus was so impressed and said, “That He had not seen anyone else who had such great faith, not even in Israel among the Jews.”          

So Where is the Rebellion: The centurion was a Roman citizen in a Gentile culture. He was probably raised to worship Caesar and the other roman gods. His superiors most definitely worshiped Caesar and other roman gods. It’s usually considered a good career move to do the things your superiors are doing. The very fact that he recognized Jesus’ power and authority and sought him out, was an act of rebellion. When he did decide to seek after Jesus for help, the centurion was bold, took initiative, and didn’t just wait around for Jesus to show up. Thirdly, he was seeking out a cure for the wellbeing of his faithful servant, not something directly for himself. We don’t often find that. Many times people are only looking out for their own best interest. Honestly, I probably would have said, “Can you heal my servant? And I’ve got two cavities way back in the back. Can you do something about those?” The centurion then took his selflessness a step further and said, “I know you’re a busy man, so just say the word and I’ll go and do it.” It was this faith that stood him apart from not only all of the other Gentiles, but all of the other Jews as well. And doing something differently than everybody else made him a rebel.

Leading a Rebellion: Joseph

Leading a Rebellion: Joseph

Activity: Pair off one male and one female. Have each group act out the different scenes. Each scene is Mary telling Joseph she is pregnant, and Joseph’s reaction.

-2 mimes                                              -A Western Movie                              -2 Body builders

-2 Spanish speakers                             -Overly dramatic soap opera               -2 Mafia members

-2 French speakers                              -A deaf couple                                                -2 people who only text

-2 Arabic speakers in the Taliban        -2 opera singers

Rebel:

-A rebel is a person who resists any authority, control, or tradition.

The Story So Far:

-Marriages were arranged by parents at that time. Girls were usually married around 14 years old and guys around 25. Usually the two were completely separated and never met, but because they were from the small town of Nazareth they probably would have met a couple of times.

-The two would have been officially engaged at a ceremony in front of their families and then Mary would go and live with her parents for about a year until she moved in with her husband. After the engagement ceremony, Mary would have been called Joseph’s wife.

-During this year long process Mary was visited by an angel.

            Luke 1:26-35 “⁶ In the sixth month the angel Gabriel was sent from God to a city of Galilee named Nazareth, ²⁷ to a virgin betrothed^[a] to a man whose name was Joseph, of the house of David. And the virgin's name was Mary. ²⁸ And he came to her and said, “Greetings, O favored one, the Lord is with you!”^{[b] 29} But she was greatly troubled at the saying, and tried to discern what sort of greeting this might be. ³⁰ And the angel said to her, “Do not be afraid, Mary, for you have found favor with God. ³¹ And behold, you will conceive in your womb and bear a son, and you shall call his name Jesus. ³² He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High. And the Lord God will give to him the throne of his father David, ³³ and he will reign over the house of Jacob forever, and of his kingdom there will be no end.” And Mary said to the angel, “How will this be, since I am a virgin?”³⁵ And the angel answered her, “The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you; therefore the child to be born^[d] will be called holy—the Son of God.”

-It should be noted that Mary was never asked if she wanted to do this , but was told what was going to happen to her. Mary’s response was, “Behold the maidservant of the Lord! Let it be done according to your word.”

-So here we have a man and woman engaged to be married, separated for a year, and keeping themselves pure for each other, when Mary becomes pregnant. Imagine the awkwardness of that conversation. “Joey?” “Yes?” “Remember how we’ve never had sex?” “Yes.” “Well…”

The Rebellion:

-Because Mary was Joseph’s wife and because adultery was a serious sin punishable by death, her life was in jeopardy. Joseph could have done numerous things. He could have dragged her to the public square, shamed her and her family in front of the whole town, presented the evidence of her adultery and had her executed. It was not just Mary’s reputation that was being disgraced it was also Joseph’s. Either Joseph had sex with Mary before they were officially married, or Joseph’s betrothed wife cheated on him. Both would have been humiliating. There was a time when unmarried pregnancies was still shocking.

-Publicly shaming and executing Mary would have been the normal thing to do, but Joseph did something else. Matt 1:18-19, “Now the birth of Jesus Christ^[a] took place in this way. When his mother Mary had been betrothed^[b] to Joseph, before they came together she was found to be with child from the Holy Spirit. ¹⁹ And her husband Joseph, being a just man and unwilling to put her to shame, resolved to divorce her quietly.” Joseph decided to act with mercy rather than justice.

-It is important to note that Joseph had already decided to act in mercy before he himself received a vision from God. Matt 1:20-21 describes the vision he received, “ But as he considered these things, behold, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream, saying, “Joseph, son of David, do not fear to take Mary as your wife, for that which is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit. ²¹ She will bear a son, and you shall call his name Jesus, for he will save his people from their sins.”

Application:

-Joseph chose to act with mercy when society said to act with justice. Have you ever done something wrong and had to face your punishment? You know you are guilty. You got caught. There is no question that you are going to get into trouble, and then you get off scot free. For me it was a speeding ticket. I got pulled over on Carol St. I didn’t know the speed limit which is not an excuse. I was going 42 in what turned out to be a 25. The officer asked me some questions. I admitted I didn’t know how fast I was going or what the speed limit was. While he went back to his car, I began calculating how big the fine was going to be, how I was going to pay for it, and how I was going to tell Rebekah. The officer gave me a warning, and let me know the fine would have been over $300. That was an object lesson in grace. I was guilty, but did not have to pay for my crimes.

-Is there someone in your life that has wronged you that you haven’t let them off the hook yet? Perhaps they are still under the punishment of your cold shoulder or silent treatment. Maybe it’s time that you let them go. You don’t have to let them hurt you again, but maybe you can say, “You hurt me, but I’ve been forgiven for a lot of things in my life so I’m going to forgive you.” That doesn’t mean you have to be friends with them, or ever talk to them again, but you will be free knowing you did what you were supposed to do.

-The Bible says that those who have been forgiven much will love much (Luke 7:47). Are you having trouble loving or forgiving other people? Perhaps it’s because you don’t feel like you have been forgiven.

            -Jesus died on the cross for the forgiveness of sins.